boyfriend???

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Permalink Reply by Pamela Kramer on November 14, 2008 at 6:12am

Betty, Betty, Betty!

Your gorgeous and very smart.
You already know the answer.

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Permalink Reply by T. Suzanne Eller on November 14, 2008 at 6:46am

Every person deserves to be loved solely for who they are, and if that person isn't willing than why settle for that?

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Permalink Reply by Shawna on November 14, 2008 at 7:02am

Wow!!! He's 39? I'm sorry to say but he's acting like a teenager!!! He needs to grow up!!! I think you need to cut him loose!!! He's not ready to settle down! You deserve better than that!! You can find someone better! You ARE smart and PRETTY!! You will have no problem at all!! You are better off!!

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Permalink Reply by T. Suzanne Eller on November 14, 2008 at 7:05am

I agree with Pamela.

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Permalink Reply by Tonya on November 14, 2008 at 6:23pm

I'm totally with Pamela on this. I'm really sorry he's doing this to you.

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Permalink Reply by Debby on November 14, 2008 at 6:43pm

I think it's time to let him go. Find someone else who has matured because this guy is going through his 2nd childhood and you don't need to be there to mother him through it.

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Permalink Reply by Amy on November 15, 2008 at 3:32pm

Yes, move on...if you need to find something else-learn a new hobby to keep busy. It is not love, if he wants to date others-no commitment and life would be horrible, no trust.

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Permalink Reply by Casey on November 17, 2008 at 6:10am

i agree with them all....loose him ;)

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Permalink Reply by betty on December 11, 2008 at 1:31pm

i want to thank you all for the opening of my eyes!! update!!!
i told him no more i wanted to be free of the emotional torture and abuse!! we stayed up and talked for 2 days!! now we are together only! he told me he saw what life would be like without me and chose to be with me only! that losing me would be the worst thing in his life and i am worth the commitment ! last night he even told me i was his angel and thanked me again for setting him free to see where we were and where we need to be!! he even talking marriage!! but i do believe i will go slow!! thank you again all you wonderful people!@!!!

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Permalink Reply by Jennifer Marino on December 11, 2008 at 7:42pm

im going to hold myself abck from answering this to honestly... but i will tell you that you remind me of someone very close nd dear to my heart....and it is very frustrating that a woman who is beautiful and smart would put herself in this situation....you should have more respect for your feelings and especialy for love.... its our best and worst feeling and if we are unwise it will make us do bizzare things.. like not realize how wonderful one peraon is... as for him.. he is an idiot (sorry ) and i dont know your situation or what kinda "man" he is but hes sooooo now worth it..... as for thi talk you had with him....i onl hope he is worth it....and not taking advantage of you or a liar

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