If your man was a murderer, would you stand by him?

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Permalink Reply by Dorothy Stahlnecker on April 28, 2009 at 2:53pm

No I wouldn't and I'd hope he'd want to die (man or woman killer) unless as stated below they were defending themselves against a perpetrator and if what we heard is true I can't imagine what world his fiance lives in (DENIAL) and I wish her and the family strength to cope with this as they are victims too.

Dorothy from grammology
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Permalink Reply by Ms. Monica on April 28, 2009 at 3:13pm

I think I would wait until he was found guilty before I leave him if I truly doubted his guilt. But even then I would be cautious. Now if there is undeniable evidence and I was suspicious I would have been gone as soon as I found out he was arrested. I could not stand by a man if he is a murderer. Some crimes are just unforgivable in a relationship to me.

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Permalink Reply by Debby on April 28, 2009 at 4:24pm

I would only stay with my husband until it was proven that he really did do it, in a situation like this.

However if he's accused of negligence or accidental homicide then I would always stay with him.

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Permalink Reply by Queen of the Click on April 29, 2009 at 3:06pm

I think Megan is a beautiful young girl whose in love. She thinks she is doing the right thing by standing by her man.

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Permalink Reply by Alethea Anderson on April 29, 2009 at 5:30pm

If it was cold blooded 'murder' then NO.

I would have to accept it, forgive it, then let it go. I would choose to no longer affiliate with a spirit, a be-ing, who could possibly make a choice to do something like that.

I would also surround him with love and light, and hope that he would find his way.


Alethea Anderson
I work at home therefore I am!

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Permalink Reply by Bec Thomas on April 30, 2009 at 7:39pm

It would depend on the evidence, being accused doesn't not mean your guilty.

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Permalink Reply by renee on May 1, 2009 at 2:32pm

he is innocent until proven guilty,unfortunatly most people believe the opposite.
and just becuz she stands by him in public doesnt mean that is the actual case.
i guess i would have to stand by my husband of 20 yrs unless he was caught red handed.

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Permalink Reply by Maria on May 6, 2009 at 2:19pm

I would hit the pavement as fast as I could. If he murdered once...he will murder again. If someone has that in them to take another person's life. To commit such a crime. I could never let my guard down with them. I would always think it. There is no way, I would stand by him.

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Permalink Reply by Caringmom on May 6, 2009 at 4:00pm

Self defense is another thing but just to kill another human being just for pleasure. No way man I would help to turn him in. Who's to say he might kill me next and whats wrong is wrong and he was WRONG!

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Permalink Reply by Kathleen on May 7, 2009 at 7:30pm

depends on who he murdered and why

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Permalink Reply by Kate on May 7, 2009 at 7:34pm

really. how would you not know. He just disappears for hours at a time and you don't notice? I just don't see how that's possible!

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Permalink Reply by TMR on May 7, 2009 at 10:06pm

In self defense, I'm all about Tammy Wynett... (stand by your man), HOWEVER... a killer for kicks.. NO way!

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