IS THE BACHELOR A "BASTARD"?

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Permalink Reply by Brandy on March 4, 2009 at 3:29pm

I am a woman, mother and grandmother and I believe Trista is wrong... I personally do not feel the breakup should have been exposed on National T.V. But, I am a firm believer that women and men on these shows sometimes put on a show and they are really not the person they have pretended to be... He spent quality time with Melissa and she turned out NOT TO BE THE WOMAN HE WANTED TO SPEND THE REST OF HIS LIFE WITH!!! Should he live a LIE for Trista and the rest of the World???... THAT WOULD BE MUCH MORE DAMAGING FOR HIS SON...
I truly feel sorry for Melissa, but it is better now than later...
I WISH JASON AND MOLLY A LIFE FILLED WITH TRUST, FRIENDSHIP AND EVERLASTING LOVE!!!
In Closing Trista is as I believe the only one who really found Love... So it is truly unfair for her to pass judgment!!! Infact
no one has the right to pass judgement when it comes to LOVING SOMEONE AND WANTING TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THAT PERSON...
BRANDY

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Permalink Reply by Angel on March 4, 2009 at 3:30pm

I feel for Melissa, not for loosing out on Jason (he turned out to be a jerk, she's better off without him) but because she had to go through this heartbreak in front of so many people. It's okay that he had a change of heart, it's the way he went about it all. He should've never proposed to Melissa to begin with. What an example he is setting to his Son, who went from one potential Step Mom to another. What kind of parent does that. As for Molly, she may be the better choice for him, however she should've taken things slow and shouldn't have taken him back so quickly. Good luck to her.
Right On Trista, for you support towards Melissa. And Right On to Evangeline Lilly for refusing to sit next to Jason on the Jimmy Kimbel Show.

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Permalink Reply by Mercedes8899 on March 4, 2009 at 3:31pm

Melissa would be the most pathetic bachlorette ever. Why does everyone think she is some princess. She came on a tv show knowing she could be made a fool of, fall in love, or not. Anyone on there deserves what they get, especially this needy little bitch. As for Molly, hey, ride the ride and get off at the end. Just keep your wits about you. Don't think Molly is as pathetic and lacking self-esteem as Melissa.

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Permalink Reply by Mercedes8899 on March 4, 2009 at 3:34pm

Evangeline who? The people so upset by Jason's decision are those weak people who always got dumped in school and continue to be weak throughout their adult life. Grow up.

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Permalink Reply by Theresa on March 4, 2009 at 3:46pm

Personally I am pissed! Before the showed aired I had purchased a magazine that had an article written in it about the bachelor, and it had said that Jason was going to ask Melissa to marry him and than dump her for Molly! I really didn't believe it because I hardly believe anything I read in a magazine but I couldn't believe it actually was true! It also said that Jason was told from the beginning of the show and it was in his contract to do this because they haven't had the amount of viewers it once did and this would be a way to get them back! I cannot believe this guy went through with this!!! They said that the women didn't know that this was supposed to happen and I think they are ridiculous to have done this to a person. Jason is 100% a BASTARD!! Doing what he did to Melissa for the money he got paid is heart breaking and honestly after reading this how can anyone watch this show now knowing they have a HUGE say in what really is going to happen to the people?

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Permalink Reply by Eil on March 4, 2009 at 3:53pm

I go with Trista. It isn't gonna last btwn Molly and Jason. they are doomed. I feel sad for Molly as I feel she is a bit insecure

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Permalink Reply by Janet on March 4, 2009 at 3:57pm

I feel for Melissa, the way jason did this was terrible. I watched the program, and the after programs. I don't think that he knows what he wants. If he was going to break up with her, why do it the way he did. He said the contract was written that he could not talk to anyone before the show. Money mean more than the feeling of a human being. She is so much better off with out him. There has to be a reason why he and his first wife are not together. I have been married for 40 years this September, my husband and I only knew eash other for 6 weeks before we set the wedding date. But we put in the effort to have it last this long. Jason couldn't work it out.

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Permalink Reply by Jackie J on March 4, 2009 at 4:04pm

Jason took six weeks, not 10 minutes, to make up his mind that his relationship with Melissa wasn't working out. We don't know what went on during that time. Maybe he decided that Melissa wasn't the woman he was meant to choose as a mother to Ty, and a wife for himself. Give him a little credit for realizing that Melissa wasn't the right woman before hurting Ty and her even more in the end. I feel sorry for Molly that she is publicly having to go through this. How many of us have maybe gone through something similar, maybe never knowing, and the whole world wasn't watching in TV land's fast-forward.

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Permalink Reply by Sheryl on March 4, 2009 at 4:06pm

Jason is such a wimp. What a cry baby...no wonder his first wife left him. What does this say about Molly and her self esteem? I can't believe that she could be with him now, and especially trust him. I've never seen a man cry so much, no back bone.....wimpy wimpy

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Permalink Reply by Sheryl on March 4, 2009 at 4:09pm

I hope that Molly dumps the jerk....that would be awesome.

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Permalink Reply by Donna on March 4, 2009 at 4:10pm

I feel that some of you people are being awfully harsh. Calling this guy such names, is it really necessary. I truly believe that it was all set up by the show. Even if it wasn't, isn't it better that you let her go now instead of leading her on even longer. People change their minds and their feelings. I wish him and Molly the best, she is the one I wanted him to choose from the start. I personally did not like Melissa. As far as someone mentioning the fact that he introduced these two women to his son, I am sure his son has met other women his dad has dated, at that age it won't make a difference to him especially seeing as how it was for such a short time. It's not like she was living with them, they were separated by states. I think he is far from a jerk and certainly not a bastard, shame on those who have called this poor guy those things. Him and his son have been through one divorce already and he wants to make sure that doesn't happen again, I say good for him. Lighten up ladies (and guys?) , have a heart. It is a stupid show to begin with. Much happiness to Trita and her family, what a beautiful looking family.

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Permalink Reply by Lisa Hutson on March 4, 2009 at 4:42pm

My take is this, he made all the choices, held all the cards, all the decisions were his. These women danced to his tune and his rules and needs. The only choice they made was to stay. They could always leave of course. But he made all the choices!!! And when it came down to 2 and he was crying about being in love with 2 women, he made the choice!! He proposed, made promises to her and ty. As uncertain as he appeared to be, it was uncaring, selfish, and just down right mean to ask anyone to marry him! It will never work between him and Molly. It will always be in the back of her mind-All the other women he made out with (who else is he still thinking a little bit about?), she will always be second pick AND "I better make this really good and easy and say what he wants to hear or else he might bail on me too" It will always be there. Is he thinking a little about Melissa, Nicki, Jillian, Deanna.........?

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