I am also bothered by how society and women take the position of being Pro Life BUT what about PRO LIVING??? What happens when you have a baby and you can't find health care to save your life (and the baby for that matter)? What happens when, even though you have a job, a degree, you still can't afford the expense of child/day/after care, groceries (organic is SO expensive) and all that encompasses motherhood. What happens when you don't have a support group and your self esteem (i.e. depression) is sacrificed?