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Comment by Peggy Gorman on March 17, 2009 at 12:59pm

I am the parent that always held the celebrations throughout the kids lives. I always invited my ex-husband. I felt its not for me it for the kids and its important to them.
They will have one Mother and one Father,sometimes family members will be added and its a good thing.
The one rule you should follow is ,Do Not allow the kids to play off each parent. No one wins . I love the Mrs Doubtfire movie because what was said at the end , We're still a family with a really big backyard. So true.

Comment by kathy on March 14, 2009 at 8:29am

Hi, I am a single mother... I left my drug addicted husband when my son was 6 months old. was over 100 000$ in debt and no job.
I went from the lowest point in my life to
finding a job, owning my own business and becoming a multi millionaire.
I now desire to share this with divorced mothers...
I have come up with a system of tools / program that I used and that worked for me.
do you know anyone who might learn / could use something like that ?
www.divorcedmothersyesyoucan.blogspot.com
what would it take for me to be in contact with all the woman who could use these tools and change something in their lives ?
so I have a question for all of you ....
What would nurturing YOU look like ?
Just for today would you be willing to acknowledge the PHENOMENAL woman YOU are ?
hugs and gratitude
Kathy.....

Comment by Peggy Gorman on March 11, 2009 at 4:40pm

Hi everyone! I have been divorced since 1994,so I know what its all about.

Comment by Lindsy on January 11, 2009 at 4:34pm

Try to do things peacefully, especially if you have children. You are joined at the hip forever when you have kids. You have to remember to love you kids more than you hate each other. There will be birthdays, holidays, graduations, marrigages & births and it is much easier to be able to share in the joy of these events than to waste your time on hate.

Comment by Ruthann on December 22, 2008 at 9:23pm

He tried to serve me with divorce papers last Wednesday. My friends said how can anybody do before the holidays,at least wait till after the 1st of the year. I'm trying to keep my spirits up for when my son & family coming over, They don't know he tried to serve me with papers and I didn't sign his paper saying I'm going to get my own lawyer.

Comment by Amy on December 9, 2008 at 10:40am

Those of us that have experienced divorce, know the grass is not greener on the other side!!!

Comment by Ruthann on December 6, 2008 at 9:25pm

My husband and I are just starting to get a divorce.I have to find a lawyer, he already has one. After almost 34 years,but it's for the better,because he's controlling treats me like a child, I have to ask him for money when I need or want it.