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Comment by Samantha on April 6, 2009 at 8:51pm

Men always have it easier, I imagine general thinking is they can get pretty much excited with very little effort, much we are much different, and certainlt children are a big distraction. At this point it really more of finding the time whenever you can and maybe he needs to put a little more time into getting you to that point, because its usually harder for us to get into a quikkie or something like it, there are things you can do and imagination is definitely a bonus! hang in there though your babies schedule will even itself out soon and things should start getting back to normal:) I'm happy to talk about whatever,whenever there's nothing taboo! Have a wonderful evening and thank you for commenting! Cute pic

Comment by CuriousDina on April 1, 2009 at 3:21pm

Hey Shawna my guy used to be not very romantic, too. Now, he's great. What changed? Me. Two ideas changed everything, so much so I'm working on a romance guide.

1) All of us need be be appreciated. Essentially, romance or being romantic is one way that someone who cares for you can demonstrate he sees, knows and love you (anyway). So, flowers from the grocery store aren't my favorite, but I feel wondering knowing my hubby rememberred that fresh flowers make me especially happy. He knows me.

2 I realized that true romance is a two way street. My hubby, who appears fairly lame in the romance dept, has his language of romance, which I was woefully unaware of. However, Once we talked I learned the lingo, so to speak, I realized that every day he did something romantic for me because he version is: whatever makes Dina happy. That's anything from bringing me the heating pad to taking the car for an inspection to arranging a cruise.

The best part is that I have a ton of things to appreciate as romantic so he gets a lot more praise. It's a luscious cycle!

Comment by Samantha on February 9, 2009 at 6:27pm

We don't stop playing because we grow old, we grow old because we stop playing! This quote has stayed with me for a long time It's so very true, The smallest things can keep the romance alive and no it shouldn't have to fall only to you to make it happen,,,,,

Comment by Suzette on November 21, 2008 at 11:41pm

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Comment by Karrie on November 6, 2008 at 1:16pm

Not so much a drop in libido - but I'm just too tired and/or too distracted by mommyhood to get in the mood.

Comment by Shawna on October 29, 2008 at 6:01pm

Wow!! Your Hubby has too?? That's different!!! I never heard of that!!! HUH!!!

Comment by Jenny on October 15, 2008 at 8:31pm

Has anyone noticed a drop in thier labido since having a baby? I have and I know that my husband has.

Comment by Shawna on October 11, 2008 at 4:16pm

My husband went out with work last night and ended sleeping at his office over night! He stayed with one other guy who's married and another couple that's also married (of course I stayed home with kids grrrrrrrrr!!!!) Anyways the couple ended up having SEX in right in front of my husband and this other guy. The other guy actually watched!!!!!!! Thankfully my husband said that he pretended to be "asleep" (so he tells me) I' m just shocked that a married couple has enough guts to do this in front of others!!! (from what I'm told they have even had a threesome) But maybe that's the world we live in now a days! People get turned on in weird situations I guess!!!

Comment by Melissa Barlow on September 3, 2008 at 8:01pm

Don't you think that only having foreplay and sex in the bedroom becomes boring? We have done it in a truck before in a cornfield. Yes, we were married then. Kids limit where you can just rip off clothes and go to it.

Comment by Melissa Barlow on September 3, 2008 at 3:48pm

My husband and I never had a honeymoon trip. Sometimes I wish we could leave town and have a weekend alone with private time and plenty of time for romance!

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