Absidi has been trying for over a year to get pregnant with no success. She is married to a marine in the U.S. Marine Corps and has been labeled "Military Base Mommy" by the fellow marine's wives. She hosts all the baby showers for her friends on base and is in the delivery room when the other base moms have their babies especially if their husbands are deployed. Absidi is VERY frustrated and emotionally exhausted from trying to get pregnant. She is so consumed with trying to conceive so much that her friends and family are afraid to tell her if they become pregnant trying to avoid upsetting her. She also says trying to get pregnant has almost ruined her sex life and feels it's unfair everyone else is getting pregnant, while she is not.