The Problem with Women... is Men

Recently, I've been asked a lot of questions (via email) regarding infidelity... from both men and women. And as there are many new visitors to this blog (men) attempting to discern what my message is, allow me to make it clear: Men and women both cheat. Their motivations are very different (and you can read that article here), but cheating is still cheating... period.

First off, allow me to stat… Continue

Over this past weekend, I got into a discussion with friends that (inevitably) led to sex and pornography, and it all boiled down to two questions: Is porn a good thing, or a bad thing? And... what does it do for our sex lives?

Firstly, let's acknowledge that pornography can be good fo… Continue

One of the common complaints in long-term relationships lamented by women: romance. Romance and seduction become a lost art once relationships get comfortable.

When dating, men spend exorbitant time creating the mood/atmosphere for their partner—from love notes to candles to (ahem…) seductive food and blindfolds. However, once “comfortable”, those intriguing extracurricular bedroom activities wane… and in some cases stop entirely. Granted, there is a challenge for any married couple to keep the… Continue

A recent study shows that the romantic part of marriage—for the average couple—is a mere two years, six months. Given that the 50% of all couples divorce before their 5th anniversary* (with 82% of them citing “irreconcilable differences” as the reason for separation), I suppose it’s not a surprise… but it makes me wonder why these people got married in the first place. And some of the stats are alarming…

There were 5,000 couples polled… and many of the issues raised surround common issues marri… Continue

This morning, the California Supreme Court voted 6-to-1 to uphold the voter-approved ban on gay marriage. Call me naive, misguided, or liberal, but I don’t understand what even drove this initiative. Even the way the proposition was presented to the voters was a marketing initiative. (Yes on 8 was ANTI-Gay Mar… Continue