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I can completely relate to this! I have been a SAHM for a about 2 and a half years now. I never envisioned my life revolving around a 6 year old and a 2 year old. But amazingly, I am perfectly content staying with my children. My oldest one is now...
April 15
Bec: No, not everything that happens to me is because of my race. Good or bad...that is a ridiculous statement for anyone to make. I am not ONLY brown, I am a lot of other things as well...including woman, and mother...but yes, some things do stil...
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NYCity Mama and Kitty are now friends
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Bec: Then I would say that that group in Berkley should but shut down because anyone that knows anything about racism would know that in fact it is alive and well even among members of the same ethnic groups. And I am in now way a believer that on...
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Hi Bec. I read the other post and yours and thought about what you said, discussed with my husband, who is White, and slept on it. All this because I want to make sure that my opinion is as logical as I can possibly express it. The whole part of s...
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And I don't smoke.
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You're a good person, cause though I agree with you, I would've said it.
March 24

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My kids and their ages?
David-11, Aidan-3.5, Liam-2
My family style?
Traditional mom and pop
My favorite parenting quote / mantra?
This too shall pass.
Biggest surprise about parenthood?
How much love and patience and forgiveness I have.
Best parenting advice you have given or received?
Don't hurry anything, it goes by too fast and then you miss it.
My blog / website?
http://nycitymama.com
My Twitter or other favorite blog / website?
http://www.becthomasphotography.com/Index.html

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Please Don't Glare at Me, I'm Trying!!


Today I woke up and was inspired to spend this rainy Monday morning with my little ones reading them books while I drank a hot Starbucks at Barnes & Noble. I envisioned it in my mind, and I was look… Continue

Posted on March 9, 2009 at 4:00pm — 2 Comments

NYCity Mama

So, I'm A SAHM, Though Not The Kind I Envisioned.

I had family over for dinner the other night and my aunt, who hasn't seen me since forever, and definitely not this new version of me, asked with true curiosity, if I ever got fed up with my role as a SAHM. In all fairness, I have been at this gig since April of last year...wait...is it almost a year?? Holy Mierda! Ok, sorry, I digress...So, anyway. I told her no. She seemed confused.

See, the thing is, the Me before April 2008 would've NEVER chosen to stay home with the kids full… Continue

Posted on February 27, 2009 at 8:00pm — 7 Comments

NYCity Mama

Non Support of Child Support


Had this experience earlier this week and wanted to share with other parents, and lend virtual support to those who are going through what I am.
The Non Support of Child Support

Please… Continue

Posted on February 26, 2009 at 11:15am — 3 Comments

NYCity Mama

Birthday


NYCity Mama woke up this morning, excited and feeling full of life. ”Maybe I’ll get a jog in before I start my day.” She hesitated as she stared at the ceiling, listening to the kids talk too loud, stomp too hard, play too rough, right outside her bedroom door. “No. I’ll stay in bed a b… Continue

Posted on February 25, 2009 at 8:23am — 3 Comments

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At 10:08pm on May 21, 2009, K Diva said…
Stopping by to say hey, hey, hey my NY friend.
At 10:03am on April 22, 2009, OG CRAZY EDDIE said…
THANK YOU FOR ALLOWING ME TO BE YOUR FRIEND,

Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right and forget about the ones who don't. ..

PEACE & BLESSINGS
OG

At 10:09am on April 16, 2009, Carolyn Gonzalez said…
I love reading about your family. Your kids look so well adjusted and are so darn cute! I think you are a great mom!! I totally nominate you for being one of the best mom bloggers!
At 10:35am on April 12, 2009, OG CRAZY EDDIE said…
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Peace & Blessings
At 9:17pm on April 5, 2009, K Diva said…
NY City Mama I get you. Your comments were spot on, often an offender does not like to be called on to the carpet. My response:

Bec and NY let me just split it down the middle. Why, because like NY's kids I am mixed. My mother had 6 children when she met my father, together they had me. Without a tan I am very, very pale. It is very interesting what people will say in front of you when they think you are "one of them". Things do happen to all of us for a variety of reasons and some things happen/are said just because of the color of your skin and how the person feels about that color. Like NY my Mother was often accused of being my nanny rather than my mom and all of my siblings from my mother are much much darker than me and I have been asked why do you hand around so many black people. I have been in meetings at work when the discussion will turn to a black employee and the comments have been just plain evil and trust me it was because of their color. What I think is getting old is one person trying to speak for the masses by making excuses or determining that it does not happen anymore. Bec you may not feel that things happen/are said just because of a persons color but I am here to tell you IT DOES still happen. Keep in mind that "a variety of reasons" will always include race, not all the time but more common than not. what I love is the look on a persons face whe they make their little comment and I ....BAM... educate them. The first step to solving a problem is to admit that there is one.
At 9:58pm on March 27, 2009, Mommy Dearest said…

At 7:58pm on February 27, 2009, Momisodes said…
Thank you so much for reading and stopping by! :)
At 8:14am on February 25, 2009, Mommy Dearest said…
Thanks for extending your friendship! May God bless you, keep you, gift you and give you His peace.

God is Love,
Mommy Dearest
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