Oh yeah!! Sometimes I would think that I was crazy! I would get morning sickness, I would pee all the time, my breasts would hurt, and I'd be like, YES!! I am pregnant...and I'd test, and it would be negative. I have felt like you before, thinking maybe I wasn't meant to be a mother. But then I am around my friends' babies, and I feel that love and I realize that I shouldn;t give up because I know in my heart that I will be an amazing mother, and I'm sure you will be too! Don;t give up, I know it is hard, but I know our hard work and dedication will pay off in the end! I know what it is like to be around NOBODY who understands. It is hard, especially when people try to tell you not to worry. Don't ever hesitate to send me a message! I promise, you sending me an email about your problems or concerns helps me just as much as it helps you. It's nice knowing that other people out there know how I feel!
Yeah, my husband was the same way...but getting that checked can help pin point any other problems you know? The best thing to do is tell him that it's gonna be fine and that if there is something wrong, then the doctors can help fix the problem.
So you know what I mean when I say it was too hard? Like everyone keeps saying "Don;t give up" and I'm like, I'm not giving up, I just need a little break from all of the disappointments. It's different getting a negative pregnancy test when you are not on any meds...when you are on meds you expect a positive pregnancy test!
I have been to the fertility specialist. I have taken all the the blood tests, I have even gotten an HSG a procedure that they do to make sure that your tubes aren't blocked. I was on the Clomid pills for about 5 months, but then I tried to switch facilities and it got all messed up, so I just told my husband I wanted to stop taking them and just let whatever happens happen. It was so stressful and emotionally hard that I just needed a break. What does your hubby say about getting his sperm analyzed? My hubby got his analyzed too...he was afraid something was going to be wrong with him, but everything turned out ok.
Oh, I definitely agree that him getting checked is a good idea...that way it helps to rule out every possible problem. I am not too familiar with PCOS but many of the women I have been talking with have it. Have you tried taking any fertility medications?
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So you know what I mean when I say it was too hard? Like everyone keeps saying "Don;t give up" and I'm like, I'm not giving up, I just need a little break from all of the disappointments. It's different getting a negative pregnancy test when you are not on any meds...when you are on meds you expect a positive pregnancy test!
Nice hearing from you! Thanks for stopping by my page!! So you are trying to conceive? How long have you been trying for? Do you have any children?
Hope to hear from you soon!