momlogic community

Real Stories. Real Advice. Real Moms.

T. Suzanne Eller

Did He Run It For Me? From broken bones to a marathon...

My son ran his first marathon this past weekend. The picture of him with his arms spread out like an eagle as he crossed the finish line says it all.

Today he came by for lunch. He walked in, one hip at an angle, a crooked smile on his face.

"Do you hurt?" I asked. I know. It's a dumb question.

"I feel great," he said.

It's been a roller coaster two weeks. On the 18th I got a call from my niece. "Kim's hurt," she said. "They are life flighting her to a hospital."

She lives in Colorado, but was in Oklahoma fourwheeling on 4,000 acres at a place called Little Saraha. She was hit by a large monster vehicle, thrown 60 feet, and knocked out. Her helmet broke in half on contact with the other vehicle.

As we raced to Kansas (trauma hospital) we arrived to discover she had numerous fractures, lacerated spleen and spine, dislocated hip, blown-out knee and a whopping concussion.

Seeing her was tough. It brought me back to a day when my son was hurt by a drunk driver. Twelve fractures from the waist down, extensive therapy, six weeks in the hospital, relearning how to walk and then run. It all flooded back in an instant.

But with a twist.

You see, that is the same son who was scheduled to run the OCK Memorial Marathon the next weekend.

When he was in the hospital, all I could see was the injuries. I had no way of knowing what was ahead. What I learned through that year-long process is that broken bones heal.

When Kim saw me walk into the room she cocked one swollen eye at me and said, "How's the collarbone?"

I wanted to laugh, and then cry. It was my biggest fear. She had taken such a huge hit to her head. But our Kim was still in there.

She called when Ryan finished the Marathon. "Did he run any of it for me?" she asked.

Yes, sweet Kim. See those arms open wide as he flew across the finish line? He was running with all of his heart, and you'll run again, too.

Share 

Add a Comment

You need to be a member of momlogic community to add comments!

Join this social network

About

Momlogic Momlogic created this social network on Ning.

Latest Activity

i agree. you dont have to look far to see someone in need. im thankful for my family,friends and this new web site group. nobody knows the shoes a mother walks in.
1 hour ago
Christianmomlogic features interviews with parenting and relationship experts, links to helpful information and articles, Q&A, giveaways, and most importantly, community between women of the Christian faith.
1 hour ago
This group is for moms who currently blog or are looking to get started! Get to know your fellow blogging mamas to exchange links and tips, request DIGGs and Stumbles, etc. Daddy bloggers welcome.
1 hour ago
a group where moms can share their personal businesses and promote their products,lines,and talents..!
1 hour ago
Kandi Thompson joined basak's group
Hi twinmoms! Share, discuss, have fun...
1 hour ago
Joanna Chan added a discussion
Hi all, Network For Wives is a fast growing, vibrant online community for wives. We have launched a Twitter Wives group and we want to invite you all to join us and help each other retweets! Look forward to seeing you! Joanna
1 hour ago
Kandi Thompson, Aaron M Bretveld, lalit marit and 11 more joined momlogic community
1 hour ago
Erin That was very touching,It's wonderful to share such joys of family
2 hours ago
Angel Tyler and Stephanie are now friends
2 hours ago
thanks karen and sorry about your surgery. will they let you take it later? i havent had stomach surgery before so maybe mine will go ok. thanks for the prayers.
2 hours ago
We play games also. The favorite is Pegs 'n Jokers.
3 hours ago
Here moms can speak openly about life with a child with special needs. Whether it's delays, diseases or disabilities, this is the place for mom support.
3 hours ago
Jennette anderson I need your vote to win christmas for my kids, Please click and vote,no hassle.Vote jennette anderson http://bit.ly/2tjR4R
3 hours ago
I attempted to have the realize band done on Sept 21 but when the doctor open me and began to look around he seen I had a hernia that needed repairing and I also had scar tissues real bad. When the nurse woke me up I heard her tell another nurse s...
4 hours ago
My favorite holiday memory was when my Dad was in town for christmas. See he lives in California so we don't get to spend holidays together to much. So when he was finally able to come during christmas season that year it was a dream come true not...
4 hours ago
Hallmark wants to make this season just a little bit brighter! Comment below and upload (text, video or photo) your favorite holiday memory and you will be entered to win a $500 Hallmark Gold Crown gift card! Contest ends 12/24/09 at 11:59 PM PST.
4 hours ago
She just seems so warm and loving!
5 hours ago
This group is for fans of Paula Deen who want to connect with other moms about cooking, recipes and other fun happenings in the kitchen!
5 hours ago
Sara Broers is now friends with MARYANN and Meagan Shamy
6 hours ago
Nora Kirchmeier updated their profile photo
6 hours ago

Badge

Loading…

© 2009   Created by Momlogic

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Privacy  |  Terms of Service

Sign in to chat!